Weve been asking the question since we passed intricately folded notes across our 8th grade classroom: does he like you or does he like like you? Trying to figure out the signs that a man is attracted to you can feel like trying to figure out the signs in the movie Signs.
Is that a crop circle or an alien language? Why is M. Night Shyamalan here?
If you think youre feeling the vibe, here are some of the signs of attraction and sexual tension to look out for.
13 Signs a Man is Attracted to You
1. He Makes Lots of Eye Contact
If you always catch him glancing your way. For instance, if youre chatting in a group and hes always looking to see your reaction, that can be a good sign. Intense eye contact can be a subtle sign that hes into you, unless hes doing the Jason Mantzoukas crazy eyes.
If you notice it, hold his gaze a little longer and meet it with a smile.
2. He Licks His Lips
If you see him licking his lips around you, that may mean hes feeling sexual chemistry. Or he just finished eating.
According to a 2019 post from Psychology Today, when you are sexually interested in someone, your tongue can become more active and lead to more lip licking. Does Miley Cyrus know about this?
3. He Touches You
Were not talking about a creepy DJ with Taylor Swift moment. But sitting next to you so your legs touch, grazing your arm, giving you high fives, choreographing a Parent Trap-style handshake these could all be signs that this man is attracted to you.
4. He Mirrors You
If hes moving his body in sync with yours, that means hes subconsciously connecting with you. If hes copying everything you do and is wearing a striped shirt, a beret, and white gloves, hes not your man; hes a mime.
5. His Voice Gets Deeper
If his voice started at Mike Tyson and slid down to James Earl Jones, it could mean hes trying to impress you.
According to a 2013 study, women tend to prefer deeper voices and a man will subconsciously deepen their voices when theyre sexually attracted to a woman. Now his desire to role play as Darth Vader finally makes sense.
6. His Eyes Dilate
The biggest signs of sexual desire can be hard to see from the outside: his heart rate goes up, he gets butterflies in his stomach, he has a boner skillfully tucked out of sight.
Researchers at the University of Kent discovered that Dilation of the pupils is an indicator of an observers sexual interest in other people.
they say your eyes dilate when you look at something you love so i took a pic of my eye regularly and then my eye after looking at garlic bread. enjoy pic.twitter.com/l6Oi8TwhSZ
zane (@ZaneFried) April 16, 2020
7. His Wardrobe Improves
If theres a major fashion change after you start hanging out, he may be trying to impress you. At last weeks happy hour, he was wearing a jersey and cargo shorts. Today? hes wearing a real shirt and pants with a reasonable number of pockets.
8. He Shows Off
Showing off is his way of getting you to notice him and prove hes a worthy candidate. So, if in the beginning, hes continually boasting about his accomplishments, realize that this is probably his attempt at a mating dance.
9. He Initiates
Some men are terrible at texting. If hes continuing the conversation by replying quickly and asking questions about you, its probably because hes interested. Or hes stuck at the DMV.
10. He Gives You Compliments
Were talking about ones that are specific to you. While Youre beautiful could be to anybody, I like how your vintage 1998 Spiceworld Tour t-shirt matches your nails that spell out SPICE GIRLS, is just for you.
11. He Asks Real Questions
If he asks questions to really get to know you not just generic things like Do you like dogs? that could be a sign that he wants to get to know you!
But if these questions trend towards topics like the name of your first dog, the street you grew up on, and your mothers maiden name youve ended up in your Moms Facebook account again.
12. He Offers to Help
If he offers to install a shelf for you, hes showing that hell be ready to install your solar panels that will be used to power your secluded homestead, where you will, of course, have 13 children and drive an ice cream truck, just as MASH predicted.
13. He Asks You Out
Get out your magnifying glass, Nancy Drew! This one is subtle. If he asks you out on a date, theres perhaps a chance that he is potentially, probably attracted to you. Possibly.
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Madison Higgins HwangMadison Higgins Hwang is a New Jersey-based freelance blogger, content marketing writer, and former Walt Disney World Cast Member. She has written for World Wildlife Fund's Good Nature Travel and TouringPlans.com.
She enjoys getting starstruck meeting Disney characters, playing board games with too many rules, and taking long naps that would be better described as sleeps.
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