How do you flirt with a guy without being obvious?

Flirting isnt just licking your lips in a seductive way or asking him to dinner, its about making a connection before making a move. Not a lot of people feel comfortable asking som

How do you flirt with a guy without being obvious?

Flirting isnt just licking your lips in a seductive way or asking him to dinner, its about making a connection before making a move. Not a lot of people feel comfortable asking someone out, especially if you dont know their relationship status or if theyre even attracted to you. Thats where subtle flirting comes in. Here are 11 ways to show youre interested without coming on too strong.

Let Him Know Youre Single. Before you even start flirting, you should let him know youre single. If he knows, hell be more likely to actually interpret your subtle flirting as flirting. You could say something like, Im always bored on the weekends or Im sick of hanging out with my married friends. If you feel comfortable, you could straight up ask if hes single and hell most likely ask you back.

Smile. The key to flirting is letting your guard down and showing your emotions. Instead of standing like a statue whenever youre together, laugh at his jokes and smile when he looks at you. You dont have to hide your emotions to get the guy. Let your feelings be seen! If he wants someone he cant read, hes not the one for you.

Ask thoughtful Questions to get to know him. If you get a chance to have a conversation with him, dont waste it talking about yourself. Were not saying youre not interesting (because you are!). But if you want to impress him, spend time asking him questions. Whats his favorite food? Whats his dream job? Show him youre curious about his life. Hell like that!

Dont Be One Of The Guys. Its not necessarily a good thing to be his buddy. We know there are positives to starting a relationship off as friends. The problem is, its not always easy to transition to something more. Dont always go to the bar with him and his pals on Friday nights. Thats how you land up in the friend zone. Make sure he knows youre girlfriend material, not BFF material.

Compliment Him. Telling him hes gorgeous might not seem subtle, but it is if you say it casually and then pretend like you didnt. Confused? Heres a scenario. When you see him, say something like, You look great in that shirt, and then change the subject to something completely irrelevant like the weather.

Tease Him. This is the oldest trick in the book and also the most effective. Teasing a guy is a subtle way to let him know youre interested. That said, its important to keep the jokes witty and playful. You dont want to insult him (men are super-sensitive). Hit him with a little sarcasm and make sure he knows youre kidding.

Double-Tap His Photos. How flirty are you feeling? If you answered, very, go ahead and pull out your phone. Scroll through his Instagram feed and double-tap one of his oldest photos. When he sees that notification, hell think one of two things: Wow, she really likes me or Wow, she just accidentally liked my photo while creeping on my feed. Either way, hell know youre interested.

Make Eye Contact. Eye contact is crucial, but you dont want to be too intense with it. Too much eye contact could freak him out. A good rule of thumb is to look at him for three seconds, before looking away. And make sure youre staring into his eyes, not his mouth, his nose, or his eyebrows. You want to hold his gaze so he knows he has your attention.

Touch Him. Before you touch his arm or knee, test the waters first. Stand a little too close and see how he reacts. If he takes a step back, that probably means hes not ready to be touched. If he stays or moves closer, take it up a notch. Gently touch his hand or rub your shoulder against his. Dont be afraid to invade his personal space.

Remember The Little Things. Being interested in someone makes us pay close attention to what they say. Use that information when youre flirting. Does he like Mexican food? Whats the name of his dog? Bring these details up in conversation to show him youre actually paying attention and taking an interest in his life.

Be Confident. Confidence is sexy. Fact. Initiate conversation, look good, smile, and have fun. Basically, be who you are. Contrary to popular belief, guys dont want someone perfect. Perfection is creepy, and if youre constantly in your head, wondering what to say or what to do, its going to come across rehearsed.

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Jordan White Jordan White is a lifestyle, sex, and relationship freelance writer with a passion for giving her audience something to laugh about. She is based in Scottsdale, Arizona and despises the heat more than anything. Living is one of her favorite hobbies.

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