How do you make a girl fall madly over text?

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How do you make a girl fall madly over text?

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This article was co-authored by Imad Jbara and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth.

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Texting a girl is a great way to get to know her and learn more about her. Thinking of what to say and making sure your conversation is interesting can be tough, though, especially if you tend to overthink things. Weve compiled a list of ways you can keep your text convo interesting and never run out of things to say.

Steps

1 1 of 10:Give her a compliment.

It will make her feel good about herself. Plus, you can tell her how cool she is so she gets the message that you like her. If your conversation is getting a little boring, flatter her with something about her personality. Stay away from anything about her looks, since that might make her uncomfortable. Try things like:[1] X Research source Go to source

  • "I love talking to you. You always know how to make me laugh!"
  • "You have the best taste out of anyone I know. Could you help me pick a birthday gift for my sister?"
  • "I cant believe you got the best grade in our class. Youre so smart!"

2 2 of 10:Ask open-ended questions.

Pick questions she cant answer with "yes" or "no." It will keep your conversation flowing well, and you can answer the questions as you go along, too.[2] X Expert Source

Imad Jbara
Dating Coach Expert Interview.  5 November 2019. Go to source  If you think of anything to ask her, try rephrasing it so she answers with a full sentence or a paragraph. Try things like:[3] X Research source Go to source

  • "Which do you prefer: dogs or cats?"
  • "If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?"
  • "Whats your favorite video game?"

3 3 of 10:Follow up on something she told you about.

Show her that you remember your previous conversations. If theres anything you two talked about previously that you want to talk about again, bring it up in a funny, casual way. You could also ask her how a specific event went or how her hobbies are going. Try something like:[4] X Research source Go to source

  • "So, you said youre Drakes biggest fan? Whatd you think of his latest single?"
  • "You said you had a swim meet yesterday, right? Howd that go?"
  • "Have you been rock climbing a lot this summer? Its been so nice out!"

4 4 of 10:Tell her a cool story.

You dont have to brag, but try to show her that youre interesting.[5] X Expert Source

Imad Jbara
Dating Coach Expert Interview.  5 November 2019. Go to source  Maybe you just went on vacation, bought a new car, or got a new pet. If theres anything cool that just happened to you, tell her about it over text to keep her interested in you. Say something like:[6] X Research source Go to source

  • "OMG, the craziest thing just happened to me. I went to Starbucks and I saw Jenna Fischer ordering a latte! I was way too nervous to say hi."
  • "I just adopted a new dog! His name is Rocky, hes the cutest thing ever."

5 5 of 10:Ask her deep questions about herself.

Get to know her personally over texts. You can ask about her childhood, her goals, and her aspirations in life. The more you talk about deep things like these, the more you two will form a connection. Ask questions like:[7] X Research source Go to source

  • "Who are you closest to in your family?"
  • "Whats a happy memory from your childhood?"
  • "Where do you see yourself in 10 years?"

6 6 of 10:Create an inside joke with her.

If you know her IRL, make fun of something silly thats happened. Maybe you have a math teacher whos never on time to class, or maybe you saw a really bad movie together last week. Remind her of it and make her laugh by saying something like:[8] X Research source Go to source

  • "Uh oh, Im running late today. You might as well call me Mr. Brown."
  • "Saw a dog today that totally reminded me of the movie we saw. I cant believe how terrible it was!"

7 7 of 10:Start a fun debate.

Bring up something silly that you two can "fight" over. Pick something totally random, like whether or not a hot dog is a sandwich. It will pique her interest, and you two can disagree over text while having a funny conversation. For instance:[9] X Research source Go to source

  • "Is Santa Claus evil? Why or why not?"
  • "Being a dog mom is a full time job. Agree or disagree?"
  • "Can soup be a drink?"

8 8 of 10:Text pics of what youre up to.

Spice up your conversation with a few fun pics. If youre out and about, text her about what youre doing and send along a photo to show her your perspective. You can also send her these over Snapchat, but theres something a little more special about messaging them to her directly.[10] X Research source Go to source

  • For instance, if youre watching a football game in person, you might send a pic of the field at half time.
  • Or, if youre at a water park, take a quick selfie in front of the slides.

9 9 of 10:Avoid sending one-word responses.

This can really throw off a conversation. If shes asking you questions or sending you messages, dont reply with just "yup" or "okay."[11] X Expert Source

Imad Jbara
Dating Coach Expert Interview.  5 November 2019. Go to source  She might think youre not interested, and she could even stop texting you all together.[12] X Research source Go to source

  • You should also try to avoid texting her more than twice in a row. Sending double texts can seem a little desperate, and you dont want to come on too strong.

10 10 of 10:Ask her to meet up in person.

Texting is nice, but an in-person convo is even better. If you can, try to steer the conversation toward meeting up in real life as soon as possible.[13] X Expert Source

Imad Jbara
Dating Coach Expert Interview.  5 November 2019. Go to source  You can suggest a place to get the ball rolling and see what she says.[14] X Research source Go to source

  • Say something like, "Ive had a ton of fun talking to you over text. Would you want to grab coffee this weekend?"
  • Or, "I know you like hikingwanna show me a trail this weekend?"

Community Q&A

  • Question How do I text my crush?

Imad Jbara Dating Coach Expert Answer Try to be illogical and fun! Instead of leaning on the classic "fine" and "okay" answers to the "how are you" question, try replying with something more funny and creative. You might say, "You know, the usual. Saved a group of kids from a burning building and helped the old lady across the street. How about you?"

  • Question What should we talk about over text?

Imad Jbara Dating Coach Expert Answer Keep things simple! Ultimately, you want your texts to lead to something more personal, like a date or phone call, so you don't want to share too much over text in the beginning. Plus, texting can lead to miscommunication if you both don't know each other well, so it's better to play it safe.

Tips

  • Its hard to text somebody 24/7. You can text her as often as youd like, but try to save some conversation for when you two meet up in person.

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References

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  2. Imad Jbara. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.
  3. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a34719771/how-to-flirt-over-texts/
  4. https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=320&v=7FgH_sx0Ujs&feature=youtu.be
  5. Imad Jbara. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.
  6. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=42ZYH0hR4Po&t=467s
  7. https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/flirty-text-messages-examples#slide-8
  8. https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/g23841958/how-to-text-a-girl/?slide=6
  9. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a34719771/how-to-flirt-over-texts/More References (5)
  10. https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/g23841958/how-to-text-a-girl/?slide=8
  11. Imad Jbara. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.
  12. https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=165&v=rPegBFyeS4E&feature=youtu.be
  13. Imad Jbara. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.
  14. https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=530&v=7FgH_sx0Ujs&feature=youtu.be

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Co-authored by: Imad Jbara Dating Coach This article was co-authored by Imad Jbara and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth.  This article has been viewed 233,340 times.   Co-authors:  5 Updated: April 28, 2022 Views:233,340 Categories: Texting In other languagesEspañol:mantener interesada a una chica por mensaje de texto Bahasa Indonesia:Menjaga Ketertarikan Seorang Perempuan Melalui Pesan Singkat (dengan Contoh) Deutsch:Das Interesse eines Mädchens mit Nachrichten aufrechterhalten Português:Manter uma Garota Interessada Por Mensagem 日本語:メッセージで気になる女子の気を引く Nederlands:Zorgen dat een meisje geïnteresseerd in je blijft via de app ไทย:ส่งข้อความคุยกับผู้หญิงอย่างไรไม่ให้เธอเบื่อ हिन्दी:टेक्स्ट मैसेज में किसी लड़की का इंट्रेस्ट बनाए रखें (Keep a Girl Interested over Text) Türkçe:Bir Kızın İlgisini Mesajla Canlı Tutmak

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