How to go on WhatsApp without anyone knowing

Smartphones are fantastic for keeping us connected and contactable at all times, but this isnt always a blessing. Turning off our phones is rarely a viable solution, just in case s

How to go on WhatsApp without anyone knowing

Smartphones are fantastic for keeping us connected and contactable at all times, but this isnt always a blessing. Turning off our phones is rarely a viable solution, just in case something important comes up, but can we really be expected to be at everyones constant beck and call?

WhatsApp messages are just one of many modern intrusions in this digital age that do not take into account what were doing or how were feeling when they arrive on our phones. Sometimes we want a chance to think about what we want to say before we reply, yet not appear rude by not immediately replying. But we know they know weve read it.

And thats the problem here: WhatsApp makes it far too easy to tell when someone has read your message. Its handy when you are the sender of the message, but less welcome when its the other way around. You cant hide under the duvet and pretend it didnt happen.

So, how does someone know when youve read their message on WhatsApp? The most obvious way is through the tick symbols that are displayed at the end of every WhatsApp message: one grey tick is sent; two grey ticks is delivered; two blue ticks is read.

To make matters worse, you can select any message and tap the three dots icon, followed by Info, to see the exact time the message was delivered and when it was read.

And then theres Last seen: even if you get around the tick system and the timing issues, can you really explain being online 10 minutes ago and not having seen the message sent to you an hour ago?

Heres how to get around some of those problems.

How to turn off WhatsApp read receipts

You can get around WhatsApps tick system the official way or the sneaky way.

The official way is best if you dont want anyone ever knowing when youve read their messages, but youll need to accept that you also wont be able to tell when theyve read your messages.

The sneaky way is best if youre wanting to achieve this on an ad hoc basis  perhaps its just the one person youre avoiding, rather than the whole world.

The official way to disable WhatsApp read receipts

Launch WhatsApp, tap the three dots icon at the top right, then choose Settings.

Select Account > Privacy. Scroll down to and toggle off the option for Read receipts.

WhatsApp read receipts

Note that this does not apply to group messages, though it is less obvious when you have read a message in these conversations because the two ticks wont turn blue until everyone has seen the message. You can still check who has read messages you have sent within group conversations by selecting the message, tapping the three dots icon and choosing Info.

The sneaky way to get around WhatsApp read receipts

There are various ways to read WhatsApp messages without the app realising you have read them. Most of these are made possible by you never opening the app in the first place.

Here are some places you can read WhatsApp messages without opening them:

  • In notification previews  at the top of your screen, in your notification menu, and even on your lock screen
  • In the WhatsApp home screen widget
  • On a connected smartwatch or fitness tracker that supports WhatsApp notifications
  • While using your phone in Aeroplane mode  but only for as long as it stays offline

You can turn on high-priority notifications in Settings > Notifications. This will make the appear at the top of your screen when they arrive, and you can read them and then swipe them away without ever opening them.

Lock screen notifications are also possible when you go to Settings > Notifications and look for this option under Messages.

Blocking someone is a last resort, especially if you want to remain friends. You can achieve this by opening the conversation thread, tapping the three dots at the top and choosing More > Block. Dont forget to unblock them later if you do go down this path.

For as long as they remain blocked they wont know whether youve read their message, but there will be other clues to the fact they are blocked: your profile picture and status will disappear, none of their messages will appear to be delivered, and they wont be able to call you.

The following tips will not allow you to read WhatsApp messages without being seen:

  • Marking messages as unread
  • Deleting WhatsApp messages after you have read them (this isnt Inspector Gadget)

How to turn off Last Seen

Its no good turning off read receipts if your message sender can see that youve been on WhatsApp and havent bothered to read their message. In fact, its worse.

As with read receipts, this works both ways: you cant see when they were last online if you dont let them see when you were.

WhatsApp Last Seen

Launch WhatsApp, tap the three dots at the top right of the screen and choose Settings.

Select Account > Privacy, then select Last seen.

You can then choose who should see when you were last online: everyone, no-one or only your contacts.

Read next: How to use WhatsApp on a computer & Most common WhatsApp scams

Author: Marie Black, Editor In Chief

Marie is Editor in Chief, managing and leading the consumer editorial team. When she's not devising content strategy and analysing data she is a regular contributor of reviews, tips and tricks.

Marie has been writing about tech for 15 years, our resident Xiaomi and Chinese tech expert and a follower of all upcoming phones. AKA Tech Advisor's Power Ranger, she is the go-to for charging tech.

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