how to love a girl unconditionally

"I always gave you so much love, and this is the thanks I get?""Your father and I wanted you to become a doctor. We did everything for you, and now we are disappointed with your ch

how to love a girl unconditionally
  • "I always gave you so much love, and this is the thanks I get?"
  • "Your father and I wanted you to become a doctor. We did everything for you, and now we are disappointed with your choice to be an artist."
  • "I cannot believe that is who you are marrying! I would think you'd respect me more than that after all of the love I gave you."
  • "I love you and support you no matter what. However, we no longer have the finances to help you with your bills."
  • "I love you, and I have to take space from you when you speak to me that way."
  1. Pay attention to your offerings of love. Are you expecting a certain reaction? Are you offering it to receive something now or later? Has the person become indebted to you? Push yourself to offer love just because.
  2. Learn to accept and value influence. Wholehearted loving means that we believe our partner, child, friend, or parent has something of value to think, feel, or share. Work toward being influenced by them.
  3. Be transparent. Offer transparency in your interactions. Let people know what you expect. Allow people the opportunity to be successful for you.
  4. Learn to listen. Being a good listener is a lot more than "hearing"it means that you truly integrate what the person is saying and show curiosity toward learning more.
  5. Notice the dynamics of control and nip them in the bud. Pay attention to the dynamics of control in your relationship. When you get into tension, is there an underlying motive? Are your conflicts the result of unstated needs?

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