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Want to boost your conversational English vocabulary? This guide will help you improve your small talk so you can start conversations in English more easily.Small talk is the polit

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Want to boost your conversational English vocabulary? This guide will help you improve your small talk so you can start conversations in English more easily.

Small talk is the polite kind of chat that strangers, colleagues and friends use in native English conversations to greet each other, get conversations started, and to get to know more about each other.

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Greetings

Most conversations in English, and in many languages around the world, begin with a greeting. In English youll find formal and informal greetings that can be used in various situations.

Formal ways to greet someone include:

  • Hello
  • Its a pleasure to meet you
  • Good morning/afternoon/evening

Some informal greetings:

  • Hi
  • Hello
  • Hey
  • Yo!
  • Whats up?  this is an informal way to say: how are you?

Questions

Questions are an important part of conversational English. Its polite to ask about another person, to find out more about them, and to get to know them.

Generally when people start a conversation in English with someone they know its polite to enquire about how the other person is.

  • Hows it going?
  • Hi, how are you?
  • Hows your day going?
  • Having a busy day?
  • Hows life?
  • Hows everything?

And there are some basic questions that you can ask anyone, anywhere.

  • Whats your name?
  • Where do you live?
  • Where are you from?
  • What do you do?

The type of questions you ask someone in a conversation depend on various factors.

How well you know the person

You would speak more formally to someone youve never met, to a work colleague, or to someone older than you. You would speak more casually to a good friend, and to people in your own age group.

Its a good idea to wait until someone speaks casually with you before you speak casually with them. You may find that people will begin to use casual greetings with you over time, as you get to know each other better.

Someone youve just been introduced to:

  • Nice to meet you!
  • Pleased to meet you!
  • How do you two know each other?
  • So, what do you do for a living?  this means what do you do for a job?
  • How long have you been doing that?

Someone you havent seen for a while:

  • How are you keeping?
  • What have you been doing lately?
  • Hows your family?
  • Long time no see!
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Where you are

If you meet in the workplace, you may want to talk more formally. If you meet in a more casual environment, like at a party, in a bar, at a concert, or at the theatre you can talk more casually too.

Wherever you meet, you can talk about something you have in common. For example, if youve met at a party you could ask:

  • How do you know (the host of the party/the person who has introduced you to each other)?
  • Would you like a drink?
  • I love this song  do you like this kind of music?

Answers

Its polite to ask a person questions about themselves when you meet them, but its also important to respond to questions theyve asked you. This helps to keep the conversation flowing.

You can combine your answers with follow-up questions based on information the other person is giving you. For example, if someone mentions they used to live in New York you could say:

  • Oh, you lived in New York? How long did you live there?
  • Ive never been to New York; did you enjoy living there?
  • I loved visiting New York. Are there things you miss about living there?

Mirroring, or repeating some of the things the other person has said to you or asked you is a polite and easy way to respond too. For example:

  • Hi, Im Anna. Its nice to meet you
    Hi, Im John. Its nice to meet you too
  • Hi, Im Anna. Are you enjoying the party?
    Hi, Im John. Yeah, its been great! Are you enjoying it too?

Listening tips

Having a conversation outside of the classroom can be more challenging  but dont give up! The more practice you have in the real world the better, and English speakers will be happy to help you.

When youre listening to someone during a conversation focus on the words you recognise and understand more than the words you dont.

You can practise by listening to conversations native English speakers have with each other on the radio, in interviews online, in movies, TV shows and more. Listen out for useful questions and expressions you can use in your own conversations in the future.

Still have any doubt? Download our free English Vocabulary Ebook for more tips and broaden your horizons with EF English Live.

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