8 Signs Hes Flirting With You And NOT Just Being Nice
- By Carlos Cavallo
Today were going to talk about the weird place when you dont know if a guy is flirting or if hes just being nice.
You dont know really what this guy is about.
Is he just being polite?
Whats going on with him?
Today, Im going to give you signs hes flirting with you that you can look for.
Sometimes, guys can be hard to read, right?
How do you know if hes really into you or not?
It can really be a confusing thing. You dont want to put yourself out there if the guy is just trying to be polite to you.
Table of Contents
- 1. Flirty touch.
- 2. His smile lingers.
- 3. Hes excited about finding things you have in common.
- 4. He makes intimate jokes and references.
- 5. He playfully teases you.
- Guys dont outgrow flirting with you this way.
- 6. You catch him staring at you.
- Guys take women in visually.
- 7. He has told his friends about you.
- 8. He tries to get your phone number somehow.
1. Flirty touch.
The first sign hes flirting with you look for is to look for the flirty touch.
Guys cant help it. We have to reach out and touch a woman when we are feeling that attraction for her.
When he sees a woman he really likes, hes just not going to be able to resist it. Its one of the things thats just in the back of our head we have got to do.
I think it comes from a lot of guys, unfortunately, being starved of physical affection. Guys dont get the same kind of huggy, kissy, feely, touchy attention that a lot of women do.
2. His smile lingers.
Hes going to smile at you to be polite but will that smile stay on his face if hes digging you?
Probably not as much.
So if hes smiling at you and he keeps smilinglooking for more reasons to smile at you, thats a very good sign hes flirting with you.
When hes really into it and he likes being with you, hes going to make it more of a point to laugh with you and to share his smile with you.
3. Hes excited about finding things you have in common.
The third sign hes flirting with you is hes excited to find things you guys have in common.
This is a really big one.
Hes going to go out of his way to either point out those things that you guys share whether its interests, music, movies or whatever else it is.
If a guy really likes you, hes going to be on a manhunt to find things that you guys have in common because its an easy way for him to bridge the connection with you.
4. He makes intimate jokes and references.
This one kind of comes as a given. Guys tend to joke about sex a little too much.
Youas a woman have to read between the lines to understand this. Hes not just trying to be a loser or a douche bag, any of that stuff.
Hes really trying to find out if youre open to intimacy with him. He wants to find out how you feel about the idea of it.
Then you can bet hes probably flirting with you if hes trying to figure this out. Hes just trying to get a feel if its a possibility.
For him, thats the way he figures out whether or not you are physically attracted to him.
A lot of women shut guys down on this one and you have got to be careful.
Instead of shutting him down, just laugh it off and kind of move the subject along to a different topic.
And yes, hes going to come back around to it and youll even want to roll your eyes, but let it go.
Most guys do this and some guys are just clueless. A lot of guys with really good hearts, in fact, do this and they just dont realize how annoying it can be to you.
5. He playfully teases you.
Teasing is a pretty sign hes flirting with you.
This is your textbook schoolyard behavior where you call Mary a name because shes got red hair and its really because you like her and you dont have any other way of opening a conversation with her.
Guys dont outgrow flirting with you this way.
If a guy teases you about something, theres a really good chance hes flirting and into you in some way because hes looking for a way to spark the connection and interaction by bringing it up to a new energy level.
Thats really what hes doing with the teasing. Hes not trying to just bust your balls and give you a hard time.
He wants to amp up the excitement and interest in the conversation.
But, of course hes going to basically cover up his interest in you by acting like youre just an annoying bratty little sister of his.
Thats OK. You know better now.
6. You catch him staring at you.
The next sign hes flirting is you catch him staring at you. If this sign hes flirting isnt obvious, I dont know what is.
How do you know if he just happens to catch your glance or happens to lock your stare?
If you catch him looking at you from across the room or even while youre sitting right next to him, hes probably smitten.
Hes probably looking at you or trying to sneak glances at you to take you in.
Guys take women in visually.
Youve heard so many times that men are visual. Its nothing as simple as just looking at your boobs and butt. Hes going to take in your face and your appearance as a whole.
Its a thirst that men get once we find a woman that were attracted to.
7. He has told his friends about you.
If a man brings up a woman in a conversation for any reason, its probably because hes basically thinking of asking them out.
He wouldnt hold on to your memory if he wasnt interested in some way.If you walk up to him and his friends together and his friends say:
Oh, Ive heard about you.
Hes talked about you.
He said something about you
He mentioned you.
Anything like that that means he likes you.
And, a bonus sign hes flirting with you:
8. He tries to get your phone number somehow.
The next sign hes flirting with you is if he asks or somehow tries to get your phone number from you.
Getting your phone number is a killer indicator hes interested in you because hes never going to do this if hes not interested in you romantically in some way.
Men just dont do it.
Were probably not going to be getting your phone number just to hang out.
We will on occasion, but more often than not, whatever his excuse is, hes trying to basically sneak past your radar and get in contact with you again.
Thats what hes trying to do by getting your number Find a way to re-establish contact with you.
The key here is to be very cool about him.
Dont shoot him down too hard if you figure out hes flirting with you and youre not interested.
If you are interested in him, then obviously, take the ball and run with it.
If youre still struggling to figure out if he likes you or not, well then you got to know what guys giving off as signals.
Guys give very clear signs about their interest in you, you just have to know how to read it.
Of course, you have to be paying attention.
Let me show you how to read his signals.
Ill share the exact ways you can pick up the little signals that guys give off which tell you whether hes really into you or just wasting your time.
See what I mean here.
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Carlos Cavallo is a dating and attraction coach, as well as a motivational life counselor and health & fitness coach. Hes the author and coach behind theForever Yours, and Irresistible Desire programs. Hes also been featured on ABC, CBS television, national radio, and numerous print magazine and online articles.
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