What am I doing in this world

What should I do with my life?Unlike so many other questions you have about your career, this ones not quite as easy to Google. (Orshameless plugto look up on The Muse.)SEARCH OPEN

What am I doing in this world

What should I do with my life?

Unlike so many other questions you have about your career, this ones not quite as easy to Google. (Orshameless plugto look up on The Muse.)

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The good news is, youre not alonein fact, Ill guarantee that everyone has pondered their career path, finding their passion, or what they're meant to be doing at some point. And luckily, many of them are willing to share their advice. If youre at a loss for what steps to take next, read on for the best pieces of advice from a recent Quora thread on this very issue.

1. Talk to People

Meet or call at least 50 people. They can be your friends, relatives, friends of friends/references. Call them up, schedule a meeting, go see them and interact with them on what they are doing. Dont expect anything, dont ask them to find you a job, dont ask them to give you a job. Just talk and meet and have a normal conversation.Gaurav Munjal

Youd be surprised at how much you can learn just listening to other people talk. OK, yes, sometimes you might not learn much more than how badly traffic was backed up during rush hour. But other times, if you listen (and listen between the lines), youll get insight into peoples motivations, hopes, dreams, and ambitions. And when you piece all that together, you can learn how others got to where they are todayand if thats a path you want to be on, too. (Try these informational interview questions if you have no idea where to start.)

2. Get Started

My suggestion is to do something. Even if it isnt quite the right thing, it is nevertheless movement that can give you an opportunity to experience. You can spend a lot of time taking tests and getting evaluations for what you might be suited for; ideas always sound good on paper. But words dont match experience, so acting on something is your best choice.Kathleen Grace

Regardless of what you generally want to do, it never hurts to start building something. Really anything. Start creating a portfolio, launch a career newsletter, or learn how Periscope works. There are so many things you can do for your careereven if you dont know what you want to do. And, just like the previous advice, the actual act of doing will help further clarify what paths you might want to be on, and which ones you should rule out.

3. Gather Inspiration From Others

Walk into your local bookshop and go straight to the autobiography section. Buy three books from across different industries, societies, and cultures. Focus on biographies that document great and successful people's early lives, before they were great. Read them before bed. Wake up in the morning and write down 10 things you could do differently that day. Do some of them. Do this the next day. And then do it again.David Ball

No matter what you do, you probably want to be successful at it. So what better way to get started than by learning how others reached their goals? Keep in mind as youre reading that these people werent born knowing what they wanted to do either. (Get more inspiration from this list of 30 things to read, watch, listen to, and do to help you answer this age-old question.)

4. Prepare for a Long Journey

Expect that it is going to take a while and involve several iterations, or so-called life crises to figure it out. For most people its a long and often unfinished journey.Andrei Palskoi

One huge misconception about figuring out what you want to do with your life is that you will have a sudden, magical moment of extreme clarity and then have your entire life planned.

In actuality, lives shift constantly, and youll need to regroup and reconsider your journey as you go along. So instead of being surprised when you have to make new decisions, anticipate them, and dare I say it, be excited for them.

5. Leave Your Comfort Zone

Try new things and widen your horizons. Try something youve always wanted to but never got around to, something that scares you, something that is very different from what you normally do.Can Sar

Maybe you dont know what you want to do because you havent tried what youre meant to do yet. And you wont know if that is true or not until you get out there and start ruling things out.

Seriously, its easy to get into a rut and feel like you have no options besides what you are you doing right now. However, by taking a step outside your comfort zone, you might be surprised by how much you end up liking something that you never in a million years imagined you would.

6. Be Okay With Failing

Learn the skills that are needed to accomplish what you want to achieve. Most of us fail in [our] first attempt. We keep failing and learning and growing. [The] point to be noted is that this is the time to learn, experiment, grow, and fail without any substantial damage.Anuj Kumar

Nothing will slow you down more in your quest to figure out what to do with your life than being afraid of failure. Yes, youve heard this beforebut thats because its true. You wont ever be able to nail down what makes you happy if you rule everything out because it sounds hard.

7. Enjoy Not Knowing

Enjoy the meanderings, the soul-searching, the loves lost, the time wasted. All of it will add up to a complex and very unique you. The more you appreciate right now, the more the future will become a fantastic reality. Dont pressure yourself to be in the future.James Altucher

You know how math problems always seem impossible when you first look at them, but then, after taking a break, the answer feels so obvious? Figuring out what you want to do with your life is kind of like that.

By focusing on other less-pressing matters, the obvious answer may just come to you when youre least expecting itand it will be clearer than you ever imagined it to be.

Feel better about not knowing what you want to do with your life? A little? Just remember that you dont have to have it all figured out. And that even when you do, you might change course a few times. So dont worry about having all the answersjust thinking about it is a good start.

What other tips do you have for figuring out what to do with your life? Let me know on Twitter.

Need More Help? Try this worksheet to help you find your passion over your lunch break!

Lily Herman is a New York-based writer and editor. In recent months, her work has been featured in Teen Vogue, Glamour, Refinery29, Cosmopolitan, TIME, Newsweek, Fast Company, and Mashable. You can check out her website, LinkedIn, and Twitter.More from Lily Herman

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