What to say when a girl asks what do you think about me?

Sometimes I feel really bad for guys. Lets face it we set them up for failure. We ask a guy what seems to be a simple question, yet we know its a loaded one. If he doesnt answer t

What to say when a girl asks what do you think about me?

Sometimes I feel really bad for guys. Lets face it  we set them up for failure. We ask a guy what seems to be a simple question, yet we know its a loaded one. If he doesnt answer the way we want, we use it as an excuse to get mad. But what did we expect? Guys have pondered the answers to these dreaded questions for centuries. Its about time we help answer them without getting in quite as much trouble.

Does this make me look fat? A guys first thought is probably something along the lines of, Cant she look in the mirror and see for herself? When a woman asks this, she loves the outfit but is paranoid that it might show off the wrong kind of curves. First of all, yes is obviously the wrong answer. No, Absolutely not! or some other variation is good. If the clothes really do look bad on her, tell her she looks great, but you just dont think that style suits her as well as another outfit. This is a good time to point out an outfit you know she likes. Shell love that youve noticed what shes wearing and forget the initial question.

Do you think shes prettier/hotter than me? The answer is always an obvious no. If you get caught looking at another woman, dont worry. Fix the situation by telling her you were just thinking about how lucky you were to find such a beautiful woman and were just noticing how no other women can compare. We know its BS, but we appreciate the effort.

Am I like my mother? This one is really tricky. It depends on why shes asking and whether she likes her mother. Basically, if its a bad thing, say no. If she loves her mother and wants to be like her, say yes. Think it through before answering, but think quickly.

What are you thinking? Strangely enough, Ive had guys ask me this more than Ive asked them. Its definitely a deer caught in headlights moment  the moment she asks you, your mind will probably go blank. Unless youre thinking something horrible about her (and why would you be?), just be honest. If she hates the answer, she might just stop asking. On the other hand, it could just help her find out what a fun, goofy guy you really are.

What dont you like about me? This is a trap. It usually comes up before or during a fight. Resist the urge to go down the list of faults, because it doesnt end well. My advice is to either refuse to answer or give a compliment. One of the best responses Ive heard (yes, I was stupid enough to ask this) is this gem: Youre perfect to me and I love everything about you. Its sweet and arguing with it just makes the girl look like an ass.

How do I look? This isnt so bad. Just make sure you actually look at her before answering. A simple Great! tossed over your shoulder while watching Sports Center isnt good enough. Take 10 seconds to give us that up and down look you used to give us and tell us we look hot. Try to use more than one or two words once in a while, though.

Did you notice anything different? Welcome to pure panic mode. Yes, we see the gears starting to grind as your eyes get wide, trying to take in every minute detail at once. And yes, we do like to watch you squirm. We also expect you to notice whats different. Im sorry, but theres only one real right answer. Notice the difference and answer correctly.

Are you listening to me? There are only two right answers to this one. A) Say yes and be able to back it up by repeating back her last few sentences. B) Say no, but have a damn good reason why you werent. More often than not, it should be A.

Do you like my friends/family? We all imagine our significant other will absolutely love our friends and family. Of course, sometimes we cant stand our family and friends either. I highly recommend being as honest as possible without being rude. Hell no is not an appropriate answer. Just say you like them, but you just dont have much in common. We know the code, its okay.

Wheres this going? Congratulations, your woman is ready for the next step. The question is, are you? Dont lie on this question. It will come back to bite you in the ass. Be honest. If youre not ready to move in together or get married, say so. Give her valid reasons. Shell either like it or she wont. Either way, dont lead her on.

Every guy will hear at least most of these multiple times in his life. Dont panic. Breathe, think and answer carefully. How will she respond? Depends on how much she wants to torture you that day.

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Crystal Crowder Crystal Crowder is a freelance writer and blogger. She's a tech geek at heart, but loves telling it like it is when it comes to love, beauty and style. She's enjoys writing music, poetry and fiction and curling up with a great book.

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